Jordanian Customs & Etiquette

Hospitality (diyafa) is the central Jordanian virtue, and you will meet it constantly — offers of tea, help with directions, invitations to share a meal. It is genuine, not a sales tactic. Accept tea when it is offered (it is rude to refuse outright), stay a moment, and return the warmth. A small “shukran” goes a very long way.

Do not feel obliged to buy something because tea was offered, but be gracious. If someone invites you to their home, it is usually sincere — and an experience you will remember.

Use your right hand for eating, shaking hands, giving and receiving — the left is considered unclean. A handshake with “ahlan” or “marhaba” is the standard greeting; close male friends may kiss cheeks. If a woman does not extend her hand, a polite nod is the right response. Learn “shukran” (thank you), “min fadlak” (please) and “la, shukran” (no, thank you) — they will carry you far.

Jordan is predominantly Muslim, with a significant Christian minority; the two communities live interwoven. Dress modestly, especially in towns and at religious sites. Don’t eat, drink or smoke in public during daylight in Ramadan out of respect (your hotel will still feed you). Avoid drinking alcohol outside licensed venues, and never offer it to a local. Friday is the weekly day of rest; some shops close, but tourist sites stay open.

For the deeper traditions behind these courtesies, see our article on Jordanian traditions visitors should understand.